Okay right now i could scream my lungs out.
I went to my (ex) boyfriend yesterday to break up. Here's how it went:
I: I uh.. want to break up with you.
He: WHY?!
I: We're just too different
He; WHY?!
I: Well, we never agree about anything, we have loads of discussions and it's just not gonna work this way.
Silence...
I: What are you thinking right now?
Nothing
I: Would you like to say anything?
He; Yeah
Silence
I: You can say everything
Silence
And the silence went on quite a long time. Then he suddenly stood up and he said: I got to show you something.
And he went on his laptop and he started searching in his computer for god knows what and he didn't say anything about the break up anymore.
He showed absolute no emotion the whole time I talked to him.
My mom went to get me to also say goodbye to his parents. So I went downstairs to my mom. But R didn't go downstairs. My mom & I had to go because it was getting pretty late. R's mom called for him saying: are you gonna come downstairs? And he said: WHY WOULD I ?! His mom called him again: ''Don't you wanna say goodbye to Shelley?'' No response. Then me & my mom left.
In the car back home I got this very hateful text of him:
''Bitch. Well, I wasn't that very much in love with you anymore. So one problem less.'' And after that a sentence he got from a very popular show: ''You can have greetings from Brabant, CUNT.'' (brabant is where he lives)
I kind of expected him to react like this, but it still hurts. Although I am very mad at him I didn't want it to end like this.
And I just checked my MSN because I expected a hateful MSN offline message. And yes, there it was. Something with the words: whore, emo and anorexia.
Oh man, I feel angry & sad at the same fucking moment.
Fucked up shit
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Well, if you were unhappy being with him then it was bound to happen. It was good that you broke up with him face to face, though, instead of hiding behind a text. Give him time, if he's sending you messages like this then it means he still cares and he's hurt. Then try and explain him why you left him, that is if he's willing to listen to you, I'm sure that finally he'll see that it was the best thing to do. I guess his aggressive reaction was because he found it to be a personal assault against him, not because you were unhappy with this relationship.
Or I don't know, doubt that this helps, but good luck!
Or I don't know, doubt that this helps, but good luck!
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most of the people start relationships and they do not really know each other... :P and this is the result ...
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Tom:Yea than he starts touching me and i think thats masturbation
Some people think were idiots or perverts dont argue were both.
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Exactly.FuckT41182 wrote:most of the people start relationships and they do not really know each other... :P and this is the result ...
The only thing we had in common was Sum 41. But seriously, that was the only thing!
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Re: Fucked up shit
I also noticed some fucked up messages on hyvesIn the car back home I got this very hateful text of him:
''Bitch. Well, I wasn't that very much in love with you anymore. So one problem less.'' And after that a sentence he got from a very popular show: ''You can have greetings from Brabant, CUNT.'' (brabant is where he lives)
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Hmh sorry to hear that. Sucks. Txt him that he has the smallest penis evah!
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smaller than me ???
Mark: Sometimes when I talk in 3rd person i end up calling tom mark
Tom:Yea than he starts touching me and i think thats masturbation
Some people think were idiots or perverts dont argue were both.
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damn, I mean the guy didn't have to go all ballistic with name calling. You can tell someone how you feel without all that.
Sorry to hear it ended so badly...time for Pieces
Sorry to hear it ended so badly...time for Pieces
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Exactly what I was thinkingSorry to hear it ended so badly...time for Pieces
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Breaking up is never easy. Don't let it get to you. Just anger really.
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Yeah I laughed at those.. Just very pathetic.blackhawk1105 wrote:I also noticed some fucked up messages on hyvesIn the car back home I got this very hateful text of him:
''Bitch. Well, I wasn't that very much in love with you anymore. So one problem less.'' And after that a sentence he got from a very popular show: ''You can have greetings from Brabant, CUNT.'' (brabant is where he lives)
I got another text this morning
And two times this afternoon.
One with just; whore
and the other one with just; emo
I thought they were rather funny. This way it's way easier to get over him.
And yes, Pieces kind of fits right now. But I don't wanna feel sad, I wanna feel happy that it's over. And I am happy. Relieved is the word maybe.
Thanks for your sympathy guys.
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no one is as childish as you.Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:this guy sounds nearly as childish as me.
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Well I might be a contender...Jake! wrote:no one is as childish as you.Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:this guy sounds nearly as childish as me.
You should make a new TNS award 'Most childish member'
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We'd call it the "Bobbyjames Award"blackhawk1105 wrote:Well I might be a contender...Jake! wrote:no one is as childish as you.Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:this guy sounds nearly as childish as me.
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an award named after me, that's when you know you've hit the big time.
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just abuse him or something
it's so much worse when you know each other better than anyone yet someone stil has to break up the relationship.
it's so much worse when you know each other better than anyone yet someone stil has to break up the relationship.
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sounds like hes really gutted and is hiding his emotions with anger
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it also kind of predicts who's getting itBobby Skumfuk James wrote:an award named after me, that's when you know you've hit the big time.
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as it's named after me, Jake will ensure I won't win it. he's a bully like that.Janet wrote:it also kind of predicts who's getting itBobby Skumfuk James wrote:an award named after me, that's when you know you've hit the big time.